Words of wisdom

If calling someone ugly does not make you pretty,

If calling someone stupid does not make you smarter,

If making someone's life miserable does not make you happy,

THEN WHY DO IT?

Those who practice such behavior, will normally do it due to personal insecurity issues.
In short, they are losers and know it, but will not admit that they are losers.

Here is some "real" words of wisdom, from a very smart man, who made a big change in my life.
Mr. David Besuden, Sr.
I was just a couple of years of being in the actual business of car care chemicals, was not working for his company, but was "involved" and he felt that I showed some promise, so he took me to dinner at the Fairmont Hotel in New Orleans during the NADA convention that year.
I was in awe of this man, and since I had some years of professional sales and management experience, knew that this man was very successful and respected, asked him, "What is the best advice you may offer for me, in regards to the direction I am going, working with engineers and such of the vehicle manufacturers?"
His response rings in my ears to this day, over 24 years ago.

"God gave you one mouth and two ears, which means that you should listen twice as much as you speak."

What great advice, and most important today.

Grumpy

Ketch, great story and great advise. Here are some additional words of wisdom from one of the greatest women born into this world:

DO IT ANYWAY

"People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centered,
Forgive them anyway

If you are kind, people will accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives,
Be kind anyway

If you are successful, you will win some false friend and some true enemies,
Succeed anyway

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you,
Be honest and frank anyway

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight,
Build anyway

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous,
Be happy anyway

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow,
Do good anyway

Give the world the best you have an it may never be enough,
Give the world the best you've got anyway

You see, in the final analysis it is between you and God,
It was never between you and them anyway>'

Mother Teresa
Calcutta, India

Have a Holy and Peaceful Christmas and Joyful New Year

BUD ABRAHAM